An Editor’s Confession
By Andrea Merrell
There’s nothing like being put on
the spot, especially when you don’t have an answer to the question.
Sorry to disappoint, but our
brains can only retain so much information. That’s why we have industry
standard reference material such as the Chicago Manual of Style (CMOS)
and the Christian Writer’s Manual of Style (CWMS), along with other
guidelines and style sheets. Even those with a degree in English must depend on
these helpful tools.
After speaking with a number of
other professional editors, I’ve found we all have the same issue. There
are certain rules that have taken deep root in our psyche. We can spit them
out as fast as our name and address.
But there are other rules that
just don’t seem to stick, and we constantly have to look them up. While some
editors struggle with spelling and the meaning of certain words, others have a
problem with correct punctuation, formatting, and hyphenated words. We all have
our Achilles heel—that weak spot we can’t seem to get a handle on, so we run to
our reference guides, the dictionary, or our fellow editors.
This can become a dilemma (a
word I always have to look up to verify correct spelling ... LOL).
So this week, I’m going to share
a concept that always makes me second-guess myself and, hopefully, will help
you in your own writing and self-editing.
Who and Whom
Who functions as the subject;
whom functions as the object. Sounds simple, right? But since most people use who
when speaking, it’s easy to misuse in our writing.
Here are some helpful tips from
Grammarbook.com:
The pronoun who is always subjective.
Use who wherever
you would use the subjective pronouns I, he, she, we, or they.
It is correct to say Who wants to go? because
we would say I want to go or We want to go.
The
pronoun whom is
always an object. Use whom wherever you would
use the objective pronouns me, him, her, us, or them.
It is not correct to say Who did you choose? We
would say Whom because you choose me or them.
Handy memory aid: Use this they or them method
to decide whether who or whom is correct:
they
= who
them = whom
Examples:
Who/Whom wrote the letter?
They wrote
the letter. Therefore, who is correct.
Who/Whom should I vote for?
Should I vote for them? Therefore, whom is correct.
Here are a couple of other issues I run across
frequently. If we do something quickly (instead of quick), why do
we feel bad (instead of badly)? And then there’s the question of further versus
farther. But I digress … Maybe we’ll hit these in another blog post.
Do you have certain rules you struggle with?
If so, please share in the comments so we can all learn together.
Photo by Daniel Hooper on Unsplash
Ive always struggled with who/whom. Thanks for the tool to help with this one.
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You're welcome, Candyce. It's a tricky one. :)
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