Choosing a Writers’ Conference: Options Like Clothing
By Marilyn Nutter
One outfit after the
other, she stood at the mirror, modeled, and asked my opinion. We agreed that some
looked better on the hanger. Most looked lovely on her, a trim size two. There
were zero options for me, not a size two.
Options. Conference season is coming up, and we
have options to consider. Some writers are size two, and some are not. Some
need a monochromatic simple conference, and some crave a colorful packed
schedule with a class or appointment every hour.
How do we determine
which conferences to attend?
- Look at the theme, focus, and topics taught. If fiction is the focus and your genre is non-fiction, keep moving the hangers on the rack and look for a different conference.
- What is your goal in attending?
- What is the daily schedule, and does it fit your interests? How much time is devoted to keynotes, worship, panels, workshops, or short courses?
- What’s the venue? Is there a lot of walking? Is it too far from home?
- Check the price tag. Calculate the costs of registration, housing, food, and transportation so you aren’t breaking your budget.
- Is there a sale? No, conferences don’t go on sale, but check into scholarships and the deadline for applying. Can you find a roommate to cut costs?
- Who’s on faculty and taking appointments? Are you familiar with the faculty? Are there opportunities for you to pitch or do none fit with your work? Is a faculty member one you admire and want to learn from?
- Dismiss FOMO—fear of missing out. It’s easy to be swept up in the enthusiasm of friends on social media posting they registered and are preparing for a conference. If the conference isn’t a good fit for you, wish them well and find one that is your style.
- Don’t fall into the comparison trap. If a smaller or online conference is right for you, that’s where you’ll benefit most.
Zusha, a great
Chassidic master cried on his deathbed. His students asked him, "Rebbe,
why are you so sad? You have done many good deeds. Surely you will get a great
reward in heaven.”
"I'm afraid!"
said Zusha. "Because when I get to heaven, I know God's not going to ask
me 'Why weren't you more like Moses?' or 'Why weren't you more like King
David?' But I'm afraid that God will ask, 'Zusha, why weren't you more like
Zusha?' And then what will I say?"*
Each of us is uniquely
designed to write according to God’s calling, using His gifts to follow our
unique path. That path includes learning our craft in individual ways too,
including the conferences we attend. Some look better on the hanger and some
are our perfect fit.
What do you consider
when choosing a writers’ conference?
*Martin Buber, Tales of the Hassidim: The
Early Masters, Shocken Books ,1968, p. 141.
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Marilyn Nutter is co-author with April White of Destination Hope: A Travel Companion When Life Falls Apart, and a frequent contributor to online sites and compilations. Visit her website at http:/MarilynNutter.com.
I am attending a large conference for the third time and have been comtemplating a change.This post is applicable and inspiring. I love to shop so the hook was appealing as well. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad these ideas were Helpful. Marilyn
DeleteI truly enjoy attending conferences for writers. The Carolina Christian Writers Conference is one of my favorite.
ReplyDeleteYes! I met you there one time. It's one of the smaller ones and can definitely meet writers' needs. Marilyn
DeleteGreat information. I’m planning to go to Blue Ridge again this year
ReplyDeleteThank you. Di Ann Mills just posted how to prep for a conference -great ideas there if you search for her post, Marilyn
DeleteThere's so much wisdom in your message, Marilyn. Zusha's words especially spoke to me today. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteKatherine, Glad this post spoke to you. Zusha's words are a principle to think of for life.Marilyn
DeleteMarilyn, you shared wise strategies for determining which writers conferences to attend with your perfect metaphor. I've learned that large and small conferences each have merit, but choosing the appropriate one for my writing journey is important. Thanks so much.
DeleteThanks Jeannie. I’ve experienced both too!
DeleteThanks so much Marilyn. It fit exactly the quandary I've been struggling with.
ReplyDeleteGlad this helped. There are many options for us - choosing the right conference differs in where we are and what we individually need in our writing hour.
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