Monday, November 4, 2019

Don't Let Rejection Derail You

By Andrea Merrell

Rejection stings. That’s a fact. But the truth is we have a choice when it comes: give up and quit trying or let it motivate us to press on.

Sometimes the rejection is a simple no without explanation. At other times it comes with constructive criticism that can help us improve our project—if we let it. The key is not to personalize the rejection. One writer warns against allowing the opinion of ourselves to be colored by the opinion of those who fail to see our potential.

In the writing world, rejection is inevitable. That’s another fact. But to be successful, we have to maintain a positive attitude and overcome it. Here are a couple of examples from author Bob Gass:

In 1902 an aspiring young writer received a rejection letter from the poetry editor of The Atlantic Monthly. Enclosed with a sheaf of poems the twenty-eight-year-old poet had sent them was this curt note: “Our magazine has no room for your vigorous verse.” Yet he became one of the most beloved and popular American poets of all time. Who was he? Robert Frost.

In 1907 the University of Bern turned down a PhD dissertation from a young physics student. Yet that student went on to change the scientific world forever. Who was he? Albert Einstein.

When a sixteen-year-old student got his report card from his rhetoric teacher in school, there was a note attached that read: “A conspicuous lack of success.” But he refused to accept it. Who was he? Winston Churchill.

I’ve heard dozens of stories—from both newbies and seasoned writers—about the piles of rejections they have received. Even Frank Peretti was turned down by fourteen publishers before This Present Darkness was accepted by Crossway Books. Thank goodness he refused to stop trying.

I could add my own stories to the mix, and I’m sure you could as well. But I learned early on that when my manuscript gets that dreaded no, it’s either not ready or it’s not the right time or place. The truth is when we write for the Lord and He gives us words to share with others, He will open the right door at the right time, and the right person will be on the other side of that door. You never know when that will happen. That’s why it’s so important to never give up or lay aside your God-given calling.

Words are powerful. God spoke the world into existence. He tells us that words contain the power of both life and death. Sticks and stones may surely break our bones, but words go deep into our innermost being. They have the power to wound the heart or set the captive free. One single word from God can change the entire course of someone’s life. What if God has entrusted that word to you? There just might be someone out there waiting to hear your story. Read your blog post. Savor your devotion. Learn through your magazine article. Be set free by your testimony. Or be impacted forever by your powerful novel.

Take your rejections and turn them into resources. Remain teachable. Learn from the advice and suggestions of others. Keep writing and never allow rejections to derail you.

Your time will come.

How do you handle rejections? Do you have some advice you would like to share? We would love to hear from you.

(Photos courtesy of and Stuart Miles.)



  1. Rejections can hurt. I love your statement ""Take your rejections and turn them into resources. Remain teachable." I have learned from rejections and my writing is much better now.

    1. That's so awesome, Melissa. Thanks for sharing. Blessings! :)